I think its a two way street if the guy picks up the tab on the first date maybe the girl should offer to pick up the tab on the second date when i went out on my first date with my latertobe wife we ended up splitting the bill at end of the night she thought it was different but understood the reasons.
Span classnews_dtaug 05 2007spannbsp018332who is picking up the tab posted 842007 122530 pm yep all depends on the two people and the situation if i drive far for the dinner my date usually agress to pick up tab since i made the drive which is nice and fair.
Span classnews_dtjan 23 2009spannbsp018332who is picking up the tab posted 12122007 90422 pm the man has always picked up the bill on the first date not wanting any money from me when insisting he will say if i want i can leave a tip this is perfectly acceptable too i dont want any.
Pick up the tab 401kcalculatororg flickr call it oldfashioned but even super independent successful women can appreciate the gesture of a guy who at least offers to pay for their date.
Bottoms up 8 the guy is supposed to pick up the tab yes you read that right of course not every single time in fact id say that the guy should only pick up the tab on the first date.
Since i initiated the meetingdate and am the guy i fully expect to and have no problem with picking up the tab however in 4 out of 5 dates the woman a does not even offer to pay her part and more concerning b does not thank me for paying the tab.
Apparently more men are picking up the tab most especially on the first date based on the study the percentage of men that actually pick up the tab on the first date is a lot higher than expected based on the study the percentage of men that actually pick up the tab on.
Erik landstrom a swedish 29yearold energy analyst based in washington dc says he also expects to pick up the bill when dating.
Span classnews_dtjan 19 2010spannbsp018332so being a girl i dont have a problem picking up the tab when im out with a significant other i think with my last bf first date he paid 2nd one we split it from then on it went back n forth and it didnt really matter who paid.